If there's one thing that truly disappoints me in a person, its when they HOLD OUT for something or someone, passing over an event, an invite or whatever, in the hopes of getting something, or someone, better. When the "something / someone better" doesn't happen, then they come and seek you out.
This attitude is ok when your doing business. After all, its part of the negotiation exercise. You wait it out and see. But its not ok in personal relationships if you've known each other for quite awhile. I take it PERSONALLY.
I wish people , for once, would just be honest.